Young people more and more often ask themselves what is better : be in a relationship or being single. Nowadays, being in a relationship is too difficult for young people. They are too busy to bother with building relationships – they have to study and often work at the same time. But is a relationship such a big burden as they seem? There are some advantages and also disadvantages of being in relationship, but being alone is not a good solution either. Now, I would like to compare and contrast those two statements.
Firstly, being in a relationship with a person we love, can bring us more satisfaction and pleasure than being single. We can confess, complain and what is more important, we can talk to each other about our problems or just for fun. Second difference is that, people who begin to build relationships while they are still young, are more emotionally stable and when they will grow up, they will be able to create a happy family. The opposite situation can be seen with singles who do not feel the necessity to start a family, or worse - are forced to do it.
Being single also has its positive features. You can do whatever you want to, you are not limited by girlfriend or wife who usually you have to listen to. We decide about our life and no matter what we do, it is always our choice, basically we are responsible for decisions that we made. Being single, we do not have to change our life, habits. Singles don’t need to care about other person’s moods . Those ‘lucky ones’ can live in their own way and every day, they can meet another people and without any pangs of conscience ask for a date. Increasingly, singles are changing partner even every week, but they are explaining this as the way to find a perfect soul mate.
Being in a relationship, we build particular kind of feelings, which are based on trust, friendship and true love. However, a relationship can give us many feelings which we can’t get from friends or family.
Those things making that,...
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